One of the hardest things is to confess our sins of impurity. Yet God already knows our sins. Yet we have to be humble, show contrition for our sins, and ask for forgiveness. The Sacrament of Confession is there to heal us, not to embarrass us. Our pride is our enemy, and our humility is our friend - our salvation. If we are living a life of sin, acknowledge it and do whatever it takes to stop it. Never be offended by the truth of sin, instead be offended by not ending your sin.
Seek out holy priests for Confession, they can give you good advice to combat the sins of impurity. Do not risk your soul with priests who do not take this sin seriously. You must live a life of purity for salvation.
The true mercy that God gives to us: To love the Sacrament of Confession is to truly love and accept God's mercy. To the humble, this is a treasure frequently used.
"Be humbled in the sight of the Lord, and he will exalt you." - James 4:10
"Sin is not the worst thing in the world. The worst thing is the denial of sin." - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen
“Let us not listen to those who deny that the Church of God has the power to forgive all sins.” - St. Augustine
“Never let yourselves be deceived by the devil by keeping silent about some sin in confession out of shame. I assure you, beloved young people, that my hand trembles as I write these lines at the mere thought that a great number of Christians are eternally lost because they have not sincerely declared their sins in confession.” - St. John Bosco
"The confession of evil works is the first beginning of good works." - St. Augustine
"If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just, to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all iniquity." - John 1:8-9
Hopelessness- the sin of despair: The feeling of hopelessness in one's sin, cannot be forgiven, because one does not seek God for forgiveness. If we don't ask, we don't receive. Nothing is beyond God, not our sins no matter how server it is. Those who are in despair may have so much remorse, they cannot see God's mercy and have no desire to make amends. Remember, always protect your soul. and never forget God's limitless mercy. Be contrite and go to Confession.
"Whenever you feel guilty, even if it is because you have consciously committed a sin, a serious sin, something you have kept doing many, many times, never let the devil deceive you by allowing him to discourage you. Whenever you feel guilty, offer all your guilt to the Immaculate, without analyzing it or examining it, as something that belongs to her… My beloved, may every fall, even if it is serious and habitual sin, always become for us a small step toward a higher degree of perfection. In fact, the only reason why the Immaculate permits us to fall is to cure us from our self-conceit, from our pride, to make us humble and thus make us docile to the divine graces. The devil, instead, tries to inject in us discouragement and internal depression in those circumstances, which is, in fact, nothing else than our pride surfacing again. If we knew the depth of our poverty, we would not be at all surprised by our falls, but rather astonished, and we would thank God, after sinning, for not allowing us to fall even deeper and still more frequently.” - St. Maximilian Kolbe
The Unforgivable Sin: This is the deliberate refusal to accept forgiveness and the persisting in sin without repentance.
"Amen I say to you, that all sins shall be forgiven unto the sons of men, and the blasphemies wherewith they shall blaspheme: But he that shall blaspheme against the Holy Ghost, shall never have forgiveness, but shall be guilty of an everlasting sin. Because they said: He hath an unclean spirit." - Mark 3:28-30
"To him who still remains in this world there is no repentance that is too late." - St. Cyprian
"Ask Jesus to make you a saint. After all, only He can do that. Go to Confession regularly and to Communion as often as you can." - St. Dominic Savio
"The Sacraments are the salvation of those who use them rightly, and the damnation of those who misuse them." - St Augustine